Don’t be the side salad of some dudes life.

Girls, we have all been there. This was by request, my friends seem to find these gems. Whether you are in it for the all or you know for a fact this was not going to turn into anything, but it was fun. HOWEVER. In no way, shape or form should you be put second to any other female if you are getting down with this man in bed or have ANY sexual relations. I am not saying be controlling or flip into a psycho path, but come on have an ounce of respect for yourself. If you have a fuck buddy, or a friends with benefit relationship and its a constant thing there should be no confusion on if you are the only chick doing it with him, you should be the only one. I’m not saying you even have to commit to each other , enjoy being fuck buddies , but don’t be a fuck group.

I think this often happens with guys. They like to take advantage of the fact that they aren’t committed to anything, but just fooling around with someone so they in fact don’t have actual rules. There are so many problems when it comes to why chicks sharing guys in these relationships is not okay. YOU DON’T EVEN KNOW EACH OTHER yet you guys are screwing the same guy days apart. WHAT IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE. lol.

Advice of the day: So ladies let him toss your salad, do not be the salad.